Hi Matthew, thanks for taking the time to read this and I’m glad it’s helped you in some way.

I too, struggled a long time with my siblings’ successes because it always made me feel like such a failure. Although my parents didn’t compare us but I did. I compared myself to them and I thought very little of myself because I couldn’t reach the level of success like they did.

But now I realize that my success is not like theirs. My success is different because I see it differently from them.

We have to live life on our own terms. As long as we’re happy, healthy, not doing anyone any harm, I don’t see why we can’t enjoy what we have while striving to achieve our own type of success.

I’m glad you’re doing well and I wish you all the best.